About Me

I write because
the truth deserves space.

Hi, I'm Nivani. I'm a writer, a mother, a mental health advocate, and someone who spent a very long time looking like she had it all together while quietly unravelling on the inside.

I started writing this blog the night before my 30th birthday when I realised I had absolutely no idea who I was or what I wanted. It became my way of making sense of the world — and, eventually, of myself.

Over the years, this space has held my adventures in New Zealand, my pregnancy journey, becoming a mother, grief, identity crises, spiritual awakenings, and the slow, tender work of building a life that actually feels like mine.

I believe that sharing our real, unpolished stories is one of the most radical acts of self-love and human connection available to us. This is mine. I'm glad you're here.